Author: safin

Love after the rain

Hello, everyone! It’s a Wednesday morning here, I’m counting my hours for the coming weekend. and something interesting popped up to my silly head. Looking back at the recent past, My life experience hasn’t given me starry-eyed happy-ever-afters. It has given me a dark sense of humor and serious trust issues lately. In fact, I’m […]

Does Islam support polygamy?

All those times when people of different religious beliefs I interacted with learned that I came from a Muslim family, they tend to ask me one question often out of their curiosity. Can a Muslim marry four wives? Why polygamy is allowed in Islam? I was always glad to explain to them what they think […]

You’ll Know It

In the past few years, I’ve been interacting with thousands of people over social/dating/chatting apps. Sometimes for an hour, sometimes day or two, sometimes for a week, sometimes for months. I’ve spent so much time wondering if the person I’m talking to is interested in dating me or not. Yeah, they might like talking to […]

Lessons Learned

Hey There! It’s another Friday and another boring weekend coming for me. As you may agree: overthinking is normal for some people like me who are trapped inside walls due to the pandemic. Let me share something I’ve been thinking lately. Throughout the past few years of being take and untaken (eventually!) and observing others […]

A box of chocolates

Normally I don’t write on Tuesdays. Its the second day of my working week and usually I focus at work. I was swiping right and left on an app and suddenly A quote kinda irked me. It is from one of my all time favorite movie ‘Forrest Gump’ where Tom Hanks, quotes his mother: Forrest […]

Bad time to give up!

This might sound insane but Dating can really bum you out. Specially at my age! Lately, I started to kinda believe that failure in finding/maintaining a healthy love-life may trigger serious depression/tantrums too. If you’ve been searching for love for some time with no luck, you may start feeling like it’s completely hopeless. And currently […]

The Chill of Dating

It’s another Saturday the 27th 2021. It’s my time to reflect again. It has been a challenging week at work. I have been depressed lately for someone unidentifiable reasons. So I was trying to figure out if my depression has anything to do with my current status of love-life. I am fortunate, my depression was […]

Watch your steps!

Wednesday night, its my rest day at work and for the rest of world, they’re getting ready for their weekend in a couple of days. Scary COVID19 virus cannot keep us within our boundaries, any longer. So let’s shade some lights over something I lately realized. Our generation, probably every generation – puts too much […]

2021 – A New Me!

So here we go! my first post of 2021. and after some hectic December events I finally have some time to write something again. So let’s talk about the New Year’s resolutions. Yes, you can make little promises to change certain things in your life any time of year, but the changing year is a […]

You’re worth finding

It’s December 17th, 2020 and in just a few days we will say goodbye to a hectic year and welcome 2021 with new hopes. So most probably this would be my last post of the year. Looking back of everything that happened in 2020 I though of sharing my thought of my choices, my decisions […]